Men are masculine and muscular, full of Yang energy; to be balanced they need soft cold energy Yin.
Knowledge is the key to the treasure. Males and females are different, but they need each other to be harmonized. Female Yin cold energy like water always settles in the lowest spot, that is the vagina of female body. So, to warm up the female body her partner should bring energy to her genitals from her extremities.
Man should start at her hands, head, ears, neck, beasts, navel and feet and moves along her legs and arms, do not rush; remember about three nice questions that create desire and anticipation in her mind and body.
Male sensuality of touching works the opposite way: his sexual energy needs to be brought out of his penis to the extremities of his body. For that reason she could start at his penis, touching lightly without focusing on direct stimulation. She does not have to stroke his fire, but to keep it at a low burn. If he gets too excited, he will explode and ejaculate in no time.
By taking the sexual energy from a man's genitals, his partner can spread it out through his legs and arms, out to his hands and feet, and to his upper body and head, which will draw the energy away and allow him to have greater ejaculatory control and help him experience a whole-body orgasm.
If man is having complexity with an erection, the energy should be drawn from his body to the penis. When a man lies on his back, gravity works against maintaining an erection as the blood flows out.
So, if maintaining an erection is an issues, it is best for the man not to lie on his back, and say; "Baby I am all yours, you can do for me, whatever you want". Standing, sitting, kneeling, and lying over his partner are all better positions for helping man to get an erection, because gravity can draw blood to his penis, not away from it. So with this knowledge, men are able to take better position and women easily could help him maintain a better erection.
Touchiness is very important in lovemaking.¨›Every touch is a part of maintains harmony with each other; holding hands or pressing lips together is as important as intercourse. On the tip of tongue there is an acupuncture point that is related to the heart. "The Kiss of Two Hearts" means the touch of two tongues during the kiss.
Kissing and licking the palm of your partner's hand and wrist can be especially pleasurable. Arms and legs respond well to soft touching, and the inner thighs are especially responsive to sexual touch.
Woman can help her partner to experience a much more satisfying and expanded orgasm if she takes some time to spread this sexual hot energy out from his genitals. Yang energy is likely to explode instantly, and once has awakened it wants to shoot out immediately. By spreading this energy out to upper body woman can help her partner control his ejaculation.
The scalp is the crown of the body and also the energetic pinnacle. She can help stimulate the top of his head and draw energy here by scratching his scalp, as she would tickle her favorite pet. From here she can start drawing the energy down trough the front channel of his body by stroking and kissing down the front of his body.
Because male sexuality ignites so quickly, many men want to move right to female genital stimulation, but he should remember about old Chinese proverb: do not put fire under the water; in other words, do not bring fire on the head of your penis into water of the cold vagina.¨›Keep in mind that on the entry of vagina there is cold energy of reflexology zone that related to the kidneys and kidneys are associated with cold water.
Do not forget about his ears, because ears are filled with acupuncture points and extremely sensitive to touch with tongue and even breasts. The spine is very sensitive along neck and down to the tailbone, where Kundalini, sexual internal energy, is resting and waiting to be awakened. The spine is a major channel for conducting energy from genitals to the brain. Lightly stroke up the spine, it will help your partner draw the internal energy up.
Erection could rise and fall with the flow of sexual energy and blood to the penis.
When she stimulates his testicles or perineum, he may not get an erection or may lose the one he has. This does not mean that he is not experiencing intensive pleasure, but it can be a source of worry for one or both partners.
Relax, knowledge helps you: the testicles are connected by an energetic channel with all organs, so when a woman touches caresses and stimulates his testicles all energy goes direct to the upper body, and this movement gives enjoyable sensation in his genitals and along the path of the energy.
Most men's testicles are very sensitive, often too sensitive for more than a delicate touch. Man must practice "Testicle Massage Technique" and train his testes to accept and enjoy harder stimulation and deep touch on perineum, if he wants use the"Million Dollar Point" and enjoy massage of his prostate. The woman can stimulate his testicles by running her nails or fingertips over them. Some men enjoy gentle tugging on the skin of the scrotum, they also sometimes enjoy having their testicles circled with the ring of your thumb and forefinger and gently tugged down. Making a snug ring stretches the skin of the testicles, making it very sensitive for light fingertip and nail stimulation.
On many men there is a very sensitive spot between their testicles following down from the underside of their penis, and other sensitive path is perineum; between base of penis and anus.¨› Right on the middle of the perineum there is "Million Dollar Point", which man should press to prevent ejaculation. This spots are very pleasurable, and enjoyable to use.
Many men experience intense delight when having their prostate stimulation, and this deep pleasure has often been equated with a woman's G-Spot. The prostate can be stimulated externally through the perineum or internally through the anus. Insert point finger two or three inches inside the rectum through the anus, and make counter-clockwise and clockwise motions, and then pumping movement. This action makes man feel pulsation in prostate and stimulates orgasm.
Men who feel confident and secure without a hard erection during foreplay, are able to experience great pleasure; hardness will happen later when it will be needed on right time.
It is all about Energy! Be Healthy with Love,